Sexy Secret #2 Talk Dirty To Me!
Most people send sexy text messages, some people write sexy notes/letters, few people whisper sexy secrets anymore, and even less people verbalize sexy messages during sex. WHY PEOPLE? WHY? While it’s a fact women are more mental and men are more visual we all like to imagine the fantasy of what could be, what it is, or like to be told what’s to come. And let’s keep in mind all dirty words aren’t always sexy! LOL! You need to be creative ladies and gents. We are going to take a crash course, who’s ready?
Text Messages
Most people send what they believe to be sexy texts but in reality it’s simple texts. People send texts like “You can put this here” or “stick this there” oh or “I can sit on this and that.” Ummm NO, that’s just a simple text. Sometimes this text is ok but eventually it gets boring. Let’s go for the FANTASY; the build-up for such a big sweet release. Instead of stating exactly what it is or what you want let’s create a metaphor. For example, instead of “I want to lick you up and down until you say stop”-BORING unless it’s the song playing LOL- try something along the lines of “I want to make love to your body with my mouth until you erupt with PURE PLESSURE over and over again.”
Sexy Notes
How would you feel if you go to brush your teeth and on the mirror you find a note that tells you what your lover wants to do to you right now? Or what if you open your lunch and there’s a note explicitly explaining what your lover has planned for you later. YES!!! For the rest of the day you’re going to daydream about how far YOU plan to take that note. You may think about it so much it just might leave a tickle down your spine and nothing is going to mess up your day. Trust me the small touch of foreplay in that little note will make a powerful BANG later.
The Whisper
That saying you want to whisper sweet nothings in your lover’s ear, SCREW THAT, let’s whisper a lot of something! Whispering in your lady’s or man’s ear can be erotic; it’s what you say and how you say it. Don’t be afraid to talk to your lover in a sexy way. I want the hairs on the back of his/her neck to stand and goose bumps form. Next time you’re in a busy setting like out at dinner or possible hanging out with the kids just gently touch the lover of his or her back, lean in, and while smiling ever so softly whisper “I can’t wait to bend over for you” or “I can’t wait to bend you over” then just walk away. LOL! Chills people let's go for the chills.
Talking During Sex
Hmmmm! I think I’ve already said enough but since you asked. We all like our egos stroked so if it’s good say so, if it you want to go deeper say so, and if it’s not great, guide your partner to how you want it. Don’t be afraid to say how you like it. Just remember sex is supposed to be nasty so if you want to get nastier than you and your partner have explored wait until sex is real good and tell them what you want and how you want it!
Most people send sexy text messages, some people write sexy notes/letters, few people whisper sexy secrets anymore, and even less people verbalize sexy messages during sex. WHY PEOPLE? WHY? While it’s a fact women are more mental and men are more visual we all like to imagine the fantasy of what could be, what it is, or like to be told what’s to come. And let’s keep in mind all dirty words aren’t always sexy! LOL! You need to be creative ladies and gents. We are going to take a crash course, who’s ready?
Text Messages
Most people send what they believe to be sexy texts but in reality it’s simple texts. People send texts like “You can put this here” or “stick this there” oh or “I can sit on this and that.” Ummm NO, that’s just a simple text. Sometimes this text is ok but eventually it gets boring. Let’s go for the FANTASY; the build-up for such a big sweet release. Instead of stating exactly what it is or what you want let’s create a metaphor. For example, instead of “I want to lick you up and down until you say stop”-BORING unless it’s the song playing LOL- try something along the lines of “I want to make love to your body with my mouth until you erupt with PURE PLESSURE over and over again.”
Sexy Notes
How would you feel if you go to brush your teeth and on the mirror you find a note that tells you what your lover wants to do to you right now? Or what if you open your lunch and there’s a note explicitly explaining what your lover has planned for you later. YES!!! For the rest of the day you’re going to daydream about how far YOU plan to take that note. You may think about it so much it just might leave a tickle down your spine and nothing is going to mess up your day. Trust me the small touch of foreplay in that little note will make a powerful BANG later.
The Whisper
That saying you want to whisper sweet nothings in your lover’s ear, SCREW THAT, let’s whisper a lot of something! Whispering in your lady’s or man’s ear can be erotic; it’s what you say and how you say it. Don’t be afraid to talk to your lover in a sexy way. I want the hairs on the back of his/her neck to stand and goose bumps form. Next time you’re in a busy setting like out at dinner or possible hanging out with the kids just gently touch the lover of his or her back, lean in, and while smiling ever so softly whisper “I can’t wait to bend over for you” or “I can’t wait to bend you over” then just walk away. LOL! Chills people let's go for the chills.
Talking During Sex
Hmmmm! I think I’ve already said enough but since you asked. We all like our egos stroked so if it’s good say so, if it you want to go deeper say so, and if it’s not great, guide your partner to how you want it. Don’t be afraid to say how you like it. Just remember sex is supposed to be nasty so if you want to get nastier than you and your partner have explored wait until sex is real good and tell them what you want and how you want it!