Are some people viewing you as entertainment; good for a laugh? Some are laughing with you. Some are laughing [well] at you [lip curl]. Do you have folks peering into your life silently waiting for your downfall all while clicking that they like-y? But do they like-y you or is that the cover up to a greater emotion; hate. And yeah, you do not want to walk around thinking that everyone is hating on us but errrrr ummmm then ask yourself should you walk around thinking that everyone likes you? Shit! You can look at your group of friends on social media and find some that do not even like themselves. Why would you think that they are invested in the betterment of you when they are not invested in their own betterment. Exactly what am I saying here? I am saying that your quantity of friends is not equivalent to the caliber of said friends [teeth suck]. Stop confusing the two.
Limit your circle. Be selective of those you call friend. Everyone who is friendly is not a friend. They are an acquaintance; just someone you know. Do not get caught up in the numbers game! Four ride or dies are better than a hundred look-y-loos. Someone who has your back, will wipe your tears, laugh with you, call you on your shenanigans, argue with you, love on you, support your dreams, believe in your aspirations and help you bury a body [blank stare] ---- that is a friend. These other folks who sent you an electronic request? Well, they are just pennies in a quarter game. Okay, carry on!
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